A Nigerian man, Muiz Adebiyi, has gone viral after he married his much older American lover, Susan Smith and moved to the United States with her.
Muiz Adebiyi has opened up on their over two-year-old marriage and his reason for marrying Susan Smith. According to him, his cougar wife is so much better than Nigerian women.
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Muiz Adebiyi has opened up on their over two-year-old marriage and his reason for marrying Susan Smith. According to him, his cougar wife is so much better than Nigerian women.
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What attracted you to your wife despite the obvious disparity in your ages?
I am attracted to her because she is very cool, loving, understanding and protective. She has a better behaviour than slay mamas.Source – Punchng.com
We had known each other for two years before we decided to get married three years after.
- How long did you know her before you proposed?
There were issues like that but our family members later understood that age is just a number and that love does not have limit. We are quite in love and happy with ourselves.
- Was there any initial opposition from either your family or hers?
I never convinced anyone. I got happiness from what I did.
- How did you convince your parents to accept your choice?
I did not say that. I only said I am happy with my decision. I am happy with her because she also makes me happy.
- Are you saying you didn’t try to make your parents understand why you made the choice?
I will not disclose that.
- What is the exact age difference between the two of you?
It has been really awesome. We are going through hard and easy times.
- Your marriage is over two years old. How has the union been?
I have learnt how to live the life of a couple. Marriage makes me more mature and I have more wisdom.
- What lessons have you learnt from the union so far?
I am a soccer player and also a car dealer.
- What profession are you into?
We both apologise when there are disagreements. But she does that first and more than I do because she is a wise wife who knows that the husband is the head of the house. She knows what marriage means.
- When there are disagreements between the two of you, who apologizes first?
I usually do not reply them because they do not know what love is all about. Everybody has their choice. I know that some will praise us and some will not.
- Some people would expect you to marry a younger lady. How would you react to that view?
No, there has been no such thing.
- Has there been any embarrassing moment on account of your marriage to her?
She is a nurse and from the United States of America. She is a short person but with a high intellect. She is quite understanding and the best woman in my life after my mother.
- Tell us about her.
Yes, I know that most people will think that way. But I do not care because I was already a US citizen and that’s not from her.
- Some people believe you chose her to get a permanent stay or something related. What do you have to say to that?
Yes, she was married.
- Was she ever married?
It is a self-decision and that does not concern anyone.
- Africans are particular about children. Did you put that into consideration in making your decision?
I will not disclose that.
- You called some people haters while celebrating the second anniversary of your marriage on Facebook recently. Who are they and what roles did they play in the entire affair to be so labelled?
Yes, she speaks Yoruba.
- Does she speak Yoruba?
She loves Nigeria and its culture.
- What is her impression of Nigeria and its citizens after she visited?
We celebrate our wedding anniversary the same way godly people do theirs. We always go to the mall, do shopping and visit the pool side.
- How do you celebrate your wedding anniversary?
My wife is far better than Nigerian ladies in every positive way. She is a wife material.
- Having dated a Nigerian lady and now married to an older American, what comparison can you make between the two?
My relationship with my in-laws is very good and cordial. They relate with me well. We chat most of the time. I speak with her mother on the phone always.
- How do your in-laws relate with you?
I think she is number three or four.
- What position is she in her family?
I call her Ayisat.
- What Yoruba name do you call her?
I listed 10 names and asked her to pick one. That was the name she picked.
- Why did you choose the name?
She chose the name because she likes it. That action has a tangible (impact) impression on our relationship.
- Did she tell you why she chose the name since she couldn’t have known the meaning?
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